Holy cow! We just learned place value. I am exhausted, but he totally gets it. Yesterday he could only read numbers zero to nine. Today he can read zero to ninety nine. Not through rote memory, but understanding place value!!! So totally cool!
We are officially homeschooling! We love it! I am challenged daily, but truly feel this is what we are called to do in our family at this time. I hope to record my thoughts, successes, failures, and laughs to remember these days and maybe help other homeschooling moms and dads!
Wednesday, October 9, 2013
Homeschool IS Working (Part 2)
Tuesday, October 8, 2013
My Kryptonite
I am very weak in Science. Kinetic energy, gravity, friction, velocity, centrifugal forces, androids (not the phone!) and aliens, kilowatts, nuclear power plants, pistons, brakes, tectonic plate movement (okay, this one I am pretty good with!), mastodons versus wooly mammoths, rotational forces, combustion...completely overwhelming and over my head.
When I reflect on my interest and experience with science learning it is dismal to say the least. I have very few, if any, fond memories of science lessons, classes, field trips, or even experiments. I remember studying for a science test in early elementary school and feeling beyond inadequate as I tried to memorize the details. I remember reading dry texts and answering discussion texts. I remember dropping a beaker (or my lab partner did, one of us, completely accidental)and getting screamed at by our Earth Science teacher, "Get a broom and clean that up!" I remember sitting in chemistry class wondering when would the 40 minutes finally be over.
There are only three positive and exciting science lessons I can recall. Learning the eight life function in freshman biology (which I still know; pat on the back and cue: respiration, reproduction, regulation, growth, excretion, transport, synthesis, nutrition) and dissecting a rat in that same class (and carrying its heart up to our principal(an elderly nun) hoping to both shock and impress her). The third is learning the three types of clouds: cumulus, cirrus, and stratus (which I subsequently learned this year when teaching Luke...there are far more than three!).
Everything else, or virtually everything else boggles my mind. I think I can handle the lower grades. I am literate after all and literally have the world at my fingertips via the Internet. It might mean late nights as I prepare lesson plans and learn new material before introducing and teaching it. But it is all do-able. The later grades don't worry me because Mark can teach that material, or You Tube, or the free online classes from Stanford and Harvard.
In any case, my lack of scientific knowledge does not concern me, except when walking through the Science Museum and I don't understand more than 75% of the exhibits. I feel like I need a Study Guide to prep for a day there ad refer to while visiting. The kids were so thrilled (as usual, but this was our first time there since school started) to be able to touch and run and push and throw and PLAY, they did not even want anything explained. Luke always asks me how things work, but not today. (Which would have been good, except I felt compelled to at least attempt to introduce the concepts of many of the exhibits). I have to take a Classical Approach and just hope I put some pegs in today.
- Peg One: gravity makes the ball go down
- Peg Two: more weight increases the friction
- Peg Three: kinetic energy is a phrase that means something...
- Peg Four: electricity starts at the power station
- Peg Five: certain requirements must be met to be classified as a living thing
- Peg Six: the earth is really, really, really old and has changed a lot
- Peg Seven: some people think it got too cold for the dinosaurs to stay alive
- Peg Eight: movement of an object is affected by the shape of what it is moving on
- Peg Nine: air can move balls through a pipe, air can hold balls or chairs up above the ground
- Peg Ten: there are different states of matter
Homeschooling IS Working! (Part 1)
I absolutely love being a homeschooling family. In these short seven weeks I have seen lots of positive changes in Luke, changes that I firmly believe would not be happening if he was spending seven to eight hours a day away from our family unit. Luke has become a great team member to Ian, he often has his back and will tell us, "Just give him one more chance," or "Just let him do ___." He is teaching Ian daily, from teaching him totally new concepts to continuing to review the basics (colors, letters, numbers). He gets overly excited when Ian demonstrates a new skill, often clapping or cheering, sometimes slapping his hands over his mouth in surprise and joy! Luke often encourages Ian, "You can do it, it is hard, but you can do it." "Keep trying."
Yes, my kids still fight, they still grab from each other, Luke still pulls on Ian's clothes and Ian still hits Luke. But they share better, they are kinder, they hug and say, "I love you," daily (sometimes with prompting, but always with sincerity now). Luke might wish it was still just the three of us sometimes, but he does love Ian. A lot. Some of this is I am sure attributed to the loads of attention he gets while we do school. Who doesn't love "The All About Me" Show?
I suppose I could argue that if I would have just been more committed to lots of one on one or special time we would have seen these same improvements sooner. Maybe we would have. But I didn't give him two hours of undivided or almost undivided attention daily after Ian was born. I can't change that course. I know though, without a doubt, if Luke was in school, he would be getting even less attention from me...I honestly believe his rough relationship with Ian would have suffered more. Instead Luke sees our family as on a special journey, he has changed in the last seven weeks and it is beautiful.
Our primary reason for homeschooling is we believe learning character is far more important than learning any school subject. If our kids learn nothing except how to be kind, honest, loving, compassionate people, we will have succeeded. We would much rather our kids drop out of high school, but be kind, be honest, choose love before each reaction they give, and share joy in this world, than be a successful college grad with no passion for love and kindness. Of course, our academic goals are at least four year college degrees before age 23. But if we only get one (academic or character achievement), we will take love everyday of the week. So far, I feel like we are achieving that.
Homeschool is building the character we want to see in our children. Are we there yet? Not by a long shot, I am not even there. But this is the beginning and already we are seeing results.
Homeschooling is hard, exhausting, draining. It requires me to be "on" almost all the time. I am desperate for a break by the end of the day. However, I love it; the beauty and joy, the time together, the memories we make each day are far bigger and much more powerful than any of the challenges. Luke growing in love for his little brother is all the proof I need that we are on the right path for our family.
Planet Box Among Stars and Planets
--1 hardboiled egg
--Crinkle cut carrots
--Diced cucumbers
--Hummus in the small dipper
--Sliced mushrooms
--Mashed potatoes in the big dipper
--1 marshmallow
Monday, October 7, 2013
Smarter than Me
Autumn Leaves ~ New Medium
Today we explored a new medium with an old project. A couple weeks ago, Luke came up with a great fall tree project which both kids loved making.
Today we did the same project, but used paint instead of construction paper.
Ian did 75% of his tree by himself and obviously designed his falling leaves and the placement of each handprint and leaf finger print independently. This was one of the first activities that Ian really followed directions and demonstrated patience. Yay! He put his handprints where he wanted them, but allowed me to place my hand over his for a good print and let me take his hand off.
Luke did his entire picture independently, except I painted his actual hands and fingers for all the leaves. He selected each spot and placed his hands and fingers on his own.
I am excited to see their reactions in the morning when they can really see the similarities between their new and old pictures, but also notice the differences.
Now if I can just think of one more medium for this project!
Sunday, October 6, 2013
PlanetBoxes 3
- Hummus in the big dipper
- Mexican chicken
- Mixed Berry Almond Yogurt in the little dipper
- Grapes (sliced in half for Ian)
- 2 hard boiled eggs
- Sliced cucumbers
- 1 marshmallow